Thursday, January 8, 2009

Cheerlishness...



http://learningfundamentals.com.au/blog/being-optimistic-about-pessimism/

science and study of "trying hard to be happy people"...

so here u see how difficult it is sometimes when u force some one to be happy... so do u say Cheer Up!! ... how true the article is when it says
.. that defensive pessimism is a strategy that helps anxious individuals to confront and work through their anxious thoughts rather than deny them.
so next time you need to swear at yourself for not doing the job right.. do it! do not wait for the smiling angle to bother... cauz then u shall realize its you who sets your standard for being happy rather than some god sent angel ... get your work done ... get the results... believe in yourself and you(or rather I) shall be happy...

and to find out if u (or rather I) are the one who cannot be happy (or rather keep that ever smiling grimace) while trying to get your work done... check the link to find out link to find out if you are Defensive Pessimist... or Strategic optimist

well it turns out I "..may use both strategies or neither strategy consistently"

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